What Is My One Thing? 

"What's My One Thing that I can do such that by doing it everything else becomes easy or unnecessary?" 

We all have goals we want to achieve and challenges we want to overcome. We want to get things done, make more money, lose weight, exercise regularly and more.

To move closer toward where we want to be, we need answers. But not just any answers—answers that will give us the quickest, easiest and cheapest way possible.

We search for the best way to save money, the easiest way to lose weight, the cheapest way to travel. But in doing so, we fail to realize it’s not the answer that matter; it’s the initial question.

Often, we fail to realize we can have the best answer in the world, but if it belongs to the wrong question, at this moment, it doesn’t matter.

The goal, then, isn’t always to search for better answers, it’s to ask better questions. But finding the right question isn’t always easy, is it? After all, you don’t know what you don’t know.

The solution? Ask yourself My One Thing Question.

My One Thing Question

"What's My One Thing that I can do such that by doing it everything else becomes easy or unnecessary?" 

My One Thing Question forces you to make the best decision about what to focus on and what actions to take. 

If you’re working on a project with many actions, My One Thing Question forces you to rank what matters in order of importance. With each ask, you see your next outcome. Put simply, you set yourself up to do one action on top of another.

Powered by My One Thing Question, your actions become a natural progression of building one right thing on top of the previous right thing. When this happens, you’re in a position to experience the power of the domino effect.

My One Thing Question collapses all possible questions into one:

You can also add a category (e.g. “for my job”) and a time frame—such as “right now” or “this year”—to give your answer the appropriate level of immediacy. Or, if you prefer, “five years” or “someday” to find a big-picture answer that helps you move forward.

You can templatize My One Thing Question as follows:

“What’s my ONE Thing that I can do [goal] [time frame] such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?”

Here are a few category-specific examples:

• For my job, what’s My One Thing that you can do to ensure I hit my goals today such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?”

• For my health, what’s  My One Thing that you can do to achieve my diet goals this week such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?

• For my key relationships, what’s My One Thing that you can do to improve my relationship with my spouse/partner this month such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?

• For my business, what’s My One Thing that you can do to make us more competitive this quarter such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?

• For my finances, what’s My One Thing you can do to increase my net worth this year such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?

My One Thing Question isn’t something you ask once; it’s something you need to ask often, a question you turn to for clarity to ensure you’re on the right track. Make it a keystone habit and give it the attention it deserves daily.

1. “What’s My One Thing that I can do …”

There are many actions you can take when moving toward a goal or overcoming a challenge. But, as mentioned above, the right way might not be the right way now. To make life easier, “What’s My One Thing” forces you to focus on ONE, specific action. Not something you could do or should do. But rather something you can and will do. Now.

2. “… such that by doing it …”

We’ve all confused being busy with getting the right things done.There’s something seductive about checking items off the proverbial to-do list. The rationale? If we mark off the easy to-dos first, then we will have made progress. But if the other items don’t move you toward your end goal, does it matter?

“… such that by doing it …” is the bridge between just doing something and doing something for a specific purpose, something that actually moves you closer to where you want to be.

3. “… everything will be easier or unnecessary?”

“… everything will be easier or unnecessary …” helps remove the trivial many tasks and activities and focus on the essential action, the ONE Thing that matters.

Most people struggle to comprehend how many things don’t need to be done if they would just start by doing the right thing.